Dear Paul, I found your website through
spiritdaily.com and I want to commend you and your fellowship of
prayer warriors on your important ministry. I was a topless
dancer for three years in a famous club in Hollywood (the
infamous Courtney Love used to dance there) and I learned first
hand that the sex industry is destructive and addictive for the
people who work in it as much as it is for the clients. Many of
the women in this profession end up in prostitution, doing porn
films and adult magazine work.
Those who end up staying in the
business too long (and most do) often end up alcoholic,
drug-addicted, lesbian or simply end up going crazy. Some end up
dead from the unhealthy lifestyle (AIDS, drugs, stalkers). I was
chased out of the job by a crazed, ruthless stalker and
eventually I moved out of town for fear for my life. I used to
subscribe to the belief that "exotic dancing" was an art form
and a healthy expression of sexual freedom for women in our
post-feminist age. This is merely a lie propagated by the devil.
Several times I quit, only to end up
missing the thrill and easy money, the false camaraderie, and I
went back to it. Spider's web indeed. It is witchcraft in the
form of seduction and manipulation. In fact, quite a few of my
coworkers were practicing witches - no coincidence. Some of the
women and the clients seemed outright possessed. Many of our
customers were married men with children. I now pray the rosary
every day as part of my daily spiritual cleansing from this dark
and poisonous world that I participated in. And I pray for the
souls of my former coworkers and clients, and that all strip
clubs close down for good.
I converted to Catholicism last year,
thanks be to God, and thanks in part to a bouncer at a strip
club who died tragically of a drug overdose. His life and death
was a real wake up call to those who knew him, as he was
actually a Catholic who had fallen away from the Church, but
still believed very much in God and was planning to quit being a
bouncer and leave Hollywood that year.
There were several violent deaths at my
club in just the three years I worked there.
People need to understand that the sex
industry kills - both the body and the soul. It ensnares many
women who look at it as a fun and harmless way to make good
money while they put themselves through school or pursue a
career - but that's a selfish and foolish attitude.
A "G-string diva" is a pathetic and
needy temple prostitute who only ends up destroying others and
herself. She usually ends up hating men for being stupid enough
to give her money for gyrating in front of him. She knows deep
down that he is exploiting her, and that she is using him. I
have seen firsthand how this profession destroys relationships
and marriages - I never knew one stripper or client who had a
happy relationship, myself included.
I am impressed by the courage and faith
of the people who have bared their souls on your site who have
also found themselves afflicted by this sin. Please feel free to
post this on your website, and I join my prayers with yours in
crushing this great evil.
God's Peace, Anonymous