A: Dear K,

Purity and Chastity are what is needed and most important in any relationship.

You should not be having sex at all with any boyfriend.  It is in accordance with God's plan for creation that love between man and woman be consummated in marriage.  This act seals the loving, sacramental marriage bond for life between two people.

As they always used to say, "Why should a man buy the cow if he can get the milk for free?"

In giving yourself and your purity away before marriage, you cheapen the gift of yourself to your spouse and, likewise, his to you.
I beg that both of you reconsider your relationship in light of the plans for each of you that almighty God has in store.

The great evil in our society is the trivialization of the sacred.  We treat the holy and precious things in our life as yesterday's garbage - even ourselves.

Step back a minute and decide what is truly important for you.  What do you want out of life and with what type of person do you want to spend that life with?

You need to ask yourself important questions. 
Then, start coming up with your own important and meaningful answers.

Both of you have to decide that you want to change, that living this kind of lifestyle must end - for your own good.

There is plenty of help out there if you just ask.

You and your boyfriend are in our prayers.
God Bless you both!

Paul @ PornNoMore